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#16: "How much should I share in early dating?"
- 2024/12/30
- 再生時間： 41 分
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Cam and Elle discuss when people share too much, too soon. This conversation is inspired by David and Michelle, who were married as total strangers on the current season of Married At First Sight. Right after they were married at the altar, David shared that he smoked cigarettes and lived in his parents’ basement, and Michelle caught a MAJOR ick and ran to the bathroom to cry. We’ve seen this same thing happen on A LOT of first dates, where well-meaning people dump their past trauma or insecurities on their date out of anxiety… and they get ghosted on loop. If you’ve ever thought “I’m going to put it all out there on the first date, they can take it or leave it” or “I don’t want to invest time in someone only for them to leave when they find out XYZ about me”... give this episode a listen. And... BIG NEWS! We're each launching positive dating communities for men and women to provide a lifeline to faith and good advice on your journey to love. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) We kick off in January 2025; sign ups found in the links below. Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we love hearing what resonated with you and may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming Q&A episode. 👀 Our communities: ✨ Elle’s dating community for women: https://stan.store/ellebeecher ✨ Cam’s dating community for men: https://stan.store/thecameronhogan ✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions: https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations: www.theboardwalks.com More from us: ✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove ✨ Listen Before Love youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher ✨ Elle’s twitter: https://x.com/ellebeecher ✨ Cam’s twitter: https://x.com/thecameronhogan Who are these people? 👀 Cameron Hogan is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 newsletters in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called Great Morning. Elle Beecher helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle writes every day, hosts a weekly walk for meaningful conversations in Austin (127 so far), drinks Diet Coke, hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Cam (100 so far), leads a positive dating community for women, and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with The Board Walks. 💌 CHAPTERS 00:00 Welcome Back & Let’s Talk Dating Shows 01:14 ‘Married At First Sight’ & Why We Love It 02:49 Story of David & Michelle From Season 18 07:29 Make Deposits Before Withdrawals 12:09 Bum Energy 17:49 How Do You Suss Out Bum Energy? 23:19 People Can Smell When Words Don’t Match Actions 29:03 Pretend Your Man Is Mute 32:44 How Do We Overcome Bum Energy? 36:39 Our Communities for Goddesses and Kings 40:12 Outro & Thanks For Supporting Us