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#11: Dating Advice for High Achievers (This Is Basically A Free Relationship Coaching Call)
- 2024/11/25
- 再生時間： 54 分
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Cam and Elle share some “greatest hits” that have caused huge shifts in people. This episode is essentially a mock coaching call for people who feel stuck in love or life – especially if you’re an ambitious person who’s struggled with people pleasing, perfectionism, or having hard conversations. We’d be so grateful if you sent this to a friend who fits these buckets… you might just shift something in them! ❤️ Since we started this pod, many folks have asked us what to do if they can’t afford our 1x1 guidance, and we want to help as many people as possible. Consider this episode a scaled “Start Here” guide for anyone ready to do the work. (You can also join our free events to integrate these lessons: a weekly walk and a daily gratitude call.) We’ve sprinkled these lessons and ideas throughout all episodes, but now they’re all in one place. Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we love hearing what resonated with you and may even feature your question or situation on the show. 👀 Connect with us: ✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove ✨ Listen Before Love youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher ✨ Elle’s twitter: https://x.com/ellebeecher ✨ Cam’s twitter: https://x.com/thecameronhogan ✨ Connect with Elle: https://stan.store/ellebeecher ✨ Connect with Cam: https://stan.store/thecameronhogan ✨ Join our daily gratitude call to embrace “feel good” emotions: https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning Who are these people? 👀 Cameron Hogan is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 newsletters in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men (November retreat here), plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called Great Morning. Elle Beecher helps people build confidence and attract love. Elle coaches amazing people, writes every day, hosts a weekly walk for meaningful conversations in Austin (120 so far), drinks Diet Coke, hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Cam (65 so far), speaks at fun conferences, and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with The Board Walks. CHAPTERS: 00:00 Welcome Back & This One’s For People Who Want Free Advice 01:41 Let’s Do A Mock Coaching Conversation For High-Performing Men 04:58 Your Next Level Up Isn’t 6 Figures or a 6 Pack 07:00 We Date Our Wounds Until We Heal 10:38 Why Mr. Nice Guy Doesn’t Win 12:38 People Pleasing Makes You Inauthentic AND Resentful (Example From The Walks) 16:38 You Lose Trust In Yourself When You Don’t Listen to The Voice 18:58 What To Do When You’re Not Tall, Rich, or Hot 25:28 Telling The Truth Makes You Sexier And More Successful 30:38 How Do We Trust Ourselves More? 34:08 Solitude 60 & The Power Of Being Alone 36:48 Have The Conversations You’re Avoiding 40:60 What Happens When Men Work With Cam 44:42 How We’re Getting “Self-Love” Wrong 47:38 Make A Soulmate Checklist And Become It 50:08 Love Yourself & Love Will Find You 52:08 Cam’s Closing Words For People Who Are Stuck 53:28 Outro & Send Us Questions/Situations