You're not doing referrals wrong—you've just been taught a system that never really worked for you.

In this empowering fourth episode of our Build to Lead series, hosted by Bridgit Norris, you'll discover how to build a client-generating engine that feels aligned with who you are and how you want to show up in business.

Guest Stacey Brown Randall—founder of Building a Referable Business, podcast host, and author of Generating Business Referrals Without Asking—breaks down the science of referrals and how legal professionals, especially women, are moving beyond outdated “good old boys” tactics.

She shares how to generate referrals through relationship nurturing, brain science, and trust-based strategies—without asking, selling, or relying on traditional networking.

If you're tired of feeling like you have to "sell" yourself to earn new clients, this conversation will reframe everything you thought you knew about referrals.

Stick around—this could be the mindset shift your firm has been waiting for.

Key Takeaways from Bridgit and Stacey:

1. Referrals Are a Distinct Business Pillar

Referrals aren’t part of prospecting or marketing—they’re a third, separate leg of the business development stool.

Recognizing and treating them as their system reshapes how you build sustainable client growth.

2. Asking Isn’t Required—There’s a Better Way

Referrals can be generated consistently without asking, manipulating, or promoting yourself awkwardly.

By focusing on trust and intentional relationship-building, they emerge naturally from genuine connections.

3. Relationship Respect Drives Results

The magic isn’t in the ask—it’s in how well you nurture and prioritize your referral sources.

Putting their needs ahead of your own strengthens trust and leads to more frequent, high-quality referrals.

4. Women Are Leading a Quiet Revolution

Rather than fighting for space in outdated systems, many women are designing approaches that reflect how they truly want to lead.

These new models prioritize alignment, authenticity, and long-term impact over transactional tactics.

5. You Deserve Referrals—But You’re Not Owed Them

Doing excellent work earns you the right to be referred, but referrals aren’t automatic.

To receive them consistently, you must commit to doing the relationship work with clarity and intention.

"If referrals don't fit in prospecting or marketing, well, then they should fit in their own leg of the stool. We've got prospecting, we've got marketing, and referrals—and they're all three good in their own ways, but you need all three of them." — Stacey Brown Randall

Get in touch with Stacey Brown Randall:

Website: https://staceybrownrandall.com/

Book: Generating Business Referrals Without Asking: https://www.amazon.com/Generating-Business-Referrals-Without-Asking-ebook/dp/B07D99KJ6H/

Show: Roadmap to Referrals: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/roadmap-to-referrals/id1405302350

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